I met a wonderful man on FarmersOnly.com after being urged by a suggestion from a group of women on a scrapbooking weekend. I saw someone after searching for some time...and reached out. He returned the spark. We emailed and talked over the phone and eventually met in person. Both of us felt as if we could relate in many ways and we have since become close and we have a relationship developing. I have enjoyed the exclusivity of the website. There is no way I can blame the site for others' problems here. I was blessed to find a man who shares my dreams and passions. No one is perfect and I don't expect that anyone could expect that in another person. I do believe that we find our soul mate if we ask or should I say "SoilMate"?