I initially went on FarmersOnly just to see what it was about. I was fortunate enough to find my now husband. He was the 3rd person I had talked to, and ONLY one I met. We started talking in April 2013, met in May 2013, and I moved to be closer to him in October 2013. We just got married on October 25, 2015 and I couldn't be happier. This site was nice because you could browse and send a message without paying. But, if someone sent you a message you had to pay to see it. I am so glad I did.