This site is a good site if you'll be honest up front with who ever it is and they'll be honest with you and the both of you have some of the same wants, then it will be good. I joined on a Friday night and started searching and that Sunday evening started talking to a girl and we talked all night long and then talked every day for the first week. We met for the first time on Christmas day and have been seeing each other and talking since. We both fell in love with each other before we even met, just by being honest with each other. She was everything I was looking for and I was everything she was looking for. True love is there, just be yourself.